With all due respect, Fuck them all. People give advice as to what they deem important, and its usually "you need to get out" relationships and blah blah. I remember my brother saying to me once when he found out that one of my pins cost me 10K "you couldn't find something better to spend ur money on" then he proceeded to go on an expensive vacation with a women who was cheating on him.
we all have different priorities.