Sopranos . Was my "one and only" for a year. Huge fan of show so I get a lot of the nuances in the game. Fan layout is fun, so is stacking modes. Always fun earning up to underboss and boss mode. Great multi balls, jackpots. I never got bored with it. I had to move it because it was collateral for another pin, plus my 1 year old likes to play. It would be hard justifying the pole dancers to him at his age. That's the only downfall...out of all the pins you mentioned, its the least "family friendly" machine. Just something you may have to consider.
Oh, unless you are absolutely restricted on space(you can always find room) the whole "one and only" may soon change to...."just one more...." And thus the bug takes over and your collection may grow... . Best of luck with your decision.