I fall in the Lucky category. My wife loves pins, makes a f-ton of money and dosent want me to sell any of them ever. It is a running joke though when buy a pin see gets shoes. Just a joke though she never runs out and buys them. She buys what she want when she wants. Big purchaces we discuss. More to get each others opinions than to ask permission. All our money is mixed up together and we both know what we can afford so no permission or policing is needed.