lol this isn’t hard to figure out
Two factors are required to be elite at pinball or video games (same question applies)
1. You need to play them obsessively
2: You need to have elite finger dexterity, reflexes, and ability to understand rules
There are simply not enough women interested in pinball to have many that match both 1 and 2.
If female/male populations liked/played pinball/video games equally you would see a difference story