Quoted from Chochi_ca:The previous owner was using a car batter charger solder to power the gi underneath lol.
That's one way to do it without fixing the original problem!
You're doing a great job trying to find the source of the problem. There has to be some stray voltage getting in your line from something on that board, and it's confirmed by your voltage measurements and the fact that you're blowing the fuses.
Take a really close look at the entire path of the circuit(s) in question. Something as small as a tiny piece of misplaced solder can cause this type of behavior.