It's the same hobby. Oh, and hey, people from other states travel to these things. Listening to Nick Baldridge talk about his multi-bingo and the bingo and woodrail rows on a podcast this morning makes me want to go to the White Rose show. It's been on my radar for years, it's just bad timing for me this year, so I'm hoping to make it happen next year. I have NOTHING against the show nor its organizers. I just don't like the shirt that was presented and I know a lot of others that didn't either. It wasn't "just a few" as others keep saying.
Right vs. wrong is not confined by state lines. The shirt was in poor taste, and living in a different state has absolutely nothing to do with that.
Do you guys even listen to people who are affected by these sorts of things? If a woman says, "hey, thing X makes me uncomfortable," do you think it's a good idea to tell her to just accept it because "that's the way it is!" or is it a better idea to find out what's offensive and work to fix it? There's nothing inherently male about pinball, so the skewed demographics should cause people to question why they're skewed, not used as an excuse to just keep painting up events and promo materials to look like a trucker's lounge from the '70s.
If people are made uncomfortable, let's ask why. Let's not tell them they're wrong. Let's make the hobby better. Let's certainly not make some ridiculous idea up about opinions being confined to state lines when we constantly travel across them to attend shows and events. I've been out state for several this year already. Heck, our last local tournament top ten had people from Utah, Nevada, Massachusetts, Texas, and Michigan.