I remember when I wanted TFTC, I ran into jk2171, and it was a trade-only machine. I politely asked him if he would consider a cash offer, and well - the rest is history .
Using the words/phrases "Cash in hand, ready to drive" has incredible effects. I rented a cargo van and drove 12 hours (6 hours each way)/ or 680 miles in one day and picked up a DM for jk along the way. Needless to say, I wanted TFTC very much, and I sure haven't been disappointed !
He even told me he had other offers before he chose me; he didn't like the idea of shipping pins of his collection or pins from other people making offers. The fact that I was willing to make the drive sealed it .
I sure hope your FH heads your way. I know it can be a bit frustrating and taxing on the nerves. Rest-assured, when it happens, it was worth waiting for!