I don't see an option for, "Divorced, but living together for the last 5 years after being apart for 3 or 4 years, after being back together for a few years, after being apart for a few years, rinse repeat." We originally lived together for 15 years, then got married for 3 or was it 6, I'm not sure, but it went south from there. 10 pins or is it 12 or.........?