Quoted from holminone:Thanks for all the suggestions! Definitely not selling anything. I had a talk with her and it turns out she’s upset about three things. First is the space that is housing my pins does not jive with her vision for the space. She thought the STTNG looked cool. The DILE blew up her furniture plan. Second is the space is in disarray. It’s not unusual for her to see things like multimeters and such. Third is the cost but she understands my position of the DILE being somewhat liquid with little downside financial risk.
So my path forward is simple. Clean up and reorganize the space so the DILE gets the treatment it deserves so she doesn’t get anxiety. Clean up my shiite in general.
I do that and she’ll maintain an open mind and not throw stones.
So basically you are a F ing slob!
You gotta be a modern man these days. Have you heard of HGTV, they watch that channel 24/7 and you can't be F ing up the decorating vibe.
When friends come over if the place looks like shit its always perceived as a bad reflection on the wife!
So get your DI phone guy pants on and clean your shit up