Sometimes there will be a thread like this on various collector forums, some guy will say, "I aint using no escrow service, blah blah blah."
That's fine. Don't do it if you don't want to.
But if I cannot verify that the seller and the item are legitimate, then I will absolutely not send money.
If you send money to some stranger 1000 miles away on the basis of crossing your fingers and hoping for the best, then don't cry when you get burned.
Because scamming is a big thing now and you will get zero point zero help from the police.
One time I bought a $3500 item off of the internet, sent the money, no response from the seller.
Months went by. No response. Nobody would do a thing. Post office could not have cared less.
Finally, the item arrives out of the blue. Turns out the seller was in a massive car wreck and was laid up in the hospital the whole time.
That experience taught me that when you get burned, there is NOBODY to help you. You are simply screwed.
Sure it ended up OK, but if it hadn't, I would have kissed that money goodbye.