Virtual (Digital) Pinball will never = physical pinball, but it is damn fun, less expensive, gives people the opportunity to play tables that they would never be able to otherwise, takes up less space, etc. People say things like "the game is the same because the digital physics" but there is so much randomness in the physics engines that it isn't like playing Pac-Man back in the 80's where the ghosts were programmed to take the same paths and if you learned a pattern you could clear all of the levels. That said, programmed physics still is not real physical gravity and inertia physics either.
We all need to agree that they will never be the same, but at the same time, that should be OK too. The idea is to have fun, and with new machines with multiple variations costing around $10k a pop, that is just too much for most people.
VR pinball is supposed to be pretty cool, but again, I see it as a 3rd way to enjoy it, not as THE way or a way that is better than others.
Pros and cons to everything for sure.
I sure hope that nobody seriously thinks that virtual (digital) pinball is the exact same as "real" pinball, but that is expected and a single computer based machine to play on is still fun and still increases interest in the hobby.
I have been a pinball fan since I was a kid in the early 80's. I bought my first pinball machine, a 1975 Gottlieb Atlantis pinball, around the same time when I was maybe 11 years old. I always wanted a room full of (real) pinball machines. I bought a Theatre of Magic back in 1998 that, due to space limitations, replaced the Gottlieb Atlantis. I still wanted more (real) pinball machines. I love going to barcades like 1-Up in Denver where there are a lot of (real) pinball machines to play. I just don't live there and options are super limited where I do live. I still seek out (real) pinball machines when traveling or if I see something by chance and have the time, I will stop and play it. That said, I only have room for 2 pinball machines due to other hobbies of mine, don't have the space, even in our 3800sqft house, for more. As such, I built a virtual (digital) pinball a couple of years ago and went all out on bells and whistles, processing power, and screens. It is a 1:1ish (3/8" wider) scale of a 90's era William's cabinet and sits right next to my Theatre of Magic that I still have and love. When I have both machines on and running and people come over to visit, there is always one person that gravitates towards the Theatre of Magic, but everyone else plays the virtual (digital) pinball machine significantly more. They like the choices in games, and the effects (lights, physical feedback, sound, etc) all are really good.
I do spend a good amount of time maintaining the virtual (digital) pinball machine though. People claim that it is less time than maintaining a physical machine, but I think it is different. A physical machine needing some repairs or restoration can be quite the undertaking, but once running, things should rarely break. With the virtual (digital) one, I find that I am regularly updating tables and software, tinkering with my POV, etc. It is just that I can also stop doing that and know that it will still run 100% perfect just like the last time it was touched without a soldering connection coming loose on a solenoid, or a 26+ year old circuit board is failing, etc.
So I think that both are great and both have merit. We just need to all agree that they are different and wonderful at the same time for different reasons. I will never sell my Theatre of Magic, but I also don't see me ever not having my virtual pinball machine right next to it either.