Quoted from dmbjunky:The only thing I would say about the two examples Bowen and Zoe gave of condescending behavior towards women is be understanding and slow to anger. I know in the two examples given I could see both as just helpful nature within the pinball community. I constantly need reminded to hit the start button four times and there are many games that I would gladly take strategic tips on. Especially tips concerning a game I may know but not that specific machine, like if a certain kickout is dangerous or not to aim for a certain shot because of the set up. Talking strategy seems to be a thing in tournaments even among competing players.
All I will say is that if you knew some of the people involved in this whole crusade, it would look different. That there is some truth here can coexist with the fact that some of the individual crusaders are a tad nuts.