Quoted from pezpunk:it IS saying "dance for me". it's saying your own personal space is my decoration and your private inner mood is my right to invade uninvited. the chances of a dude doing that to another dude are LESS THAN ZERO. she gave every possible indication that she did not want his opinion or input and it was HIM that eventually got hostile when she didn't submit to his commands for attention and subservience. if you can't see that from her story then i am just disheartened that some people can be so blind to what it's like being a woman, even after it's been so explicitly, carefully and unemotionally explained.
Try evaluating the situation at each milestone - and not from the end point.. and rethink what you've said. I say that, but I know you won't because you're not interested in objectivity here, but have a foregone conclusion. The only solution that works in your perception of the world is that no one talk to each other unless there is a specific, explicit practical purpose to do so.
Is every person that says "wow, I like your shoes?" - boning you in their mind right now too?
Maybe in a generation we'll all wear hats with lights that signify if we are open to being approached by someone. Or maybe someone will come out with a google glass that gives you red light, green light indicators if the far end is willing to accept your engagement of social conversation.
In the interim.. we'll all keep retreating inward, and be forced to avoid contact for fear of the other side's reaction and the consequences.