Quoted from punkin:Confess i never once thought i was giving my ex 'half my stuff'.
I didn't have much when i met her and everything i'm proud of we built together. It was our stuff. I still dragged the fight out for ages, but it was over %'s.
I dated a lot and had a lot of fun when I was a teen, but the minute I was out of high school I just wanted to work all the time and make as much money as I could, so that when I was older, I would not end up like the guys that were working for my Dad, they were all just broken down and miserable.
And at that time I was making 10% interest on my money in savings, and I just wanted to work all the time and keep growing that.
Confess I thought savings account sucked when interest went to 6%, and that is when I drained it to buy rental houses.
Confess I am so glad I did that when I did. Money in savings still sucks, but rental income is sweet.
Confess I never dated from the time I was 18, until right about the time I was turning 30.
I never even kissed a girl during those years, for 12 years.
(Not saying I may have been around some girls and had some fun for 50 bucks during that time, but I damn sure never kissed them).
Confess I totally understand what you are talking about though with starting off with nothing and building things together.
The 12 years that I was working up to 120 hours a week for such a long time, it was just me, no time to even try to find someone to build with.
Confess I worked my ass off, and I am worn out now.
But at least I did reach most of my goals, and I am not whining about life like my Dads employees were doing at about the same age as I am now.
Confess I am still working 7 days a week, for myself, because I want to.
Confess I will no longer be getting up at 5am to work for anyone else because I have to.
(Confess that even though I am still working 7 days a week, total hours for the week is really only around 35 now).
(Confess that number of hours needs to come down some more, because I would love to have some more afternoon naps).
Confess for a short while it was sweet to get up right before lunch, work a little, eat lunch, take a 3 hour afternoon nap, and then have dinner and play pinball.
Life is short. I have worked a WHOLE lot during my lifetime, and now I am ready for more naps.