I think many people are missing your reference. I interpret your post to mean you have had some unexpected changes in your life and while scary, may be for the better.

To the people who do not know there is a short easy read book called "Who moved my cheese". When they handed these out in work we looked it up and found "If they handed these out in your job there is about to be layoffs". The book is to prepare you for major change and try to convince you to not stress out about it because the stress of worrying about change when there is nothing you can do about it can be harmful. And most times after the change occurs you are in a better place than the uncertainty you were in before.

So good luck and may you find new cheese.