I'm not really seeing anything that offensive in that response, but maybe I'm just used to the RGP years over on Google Groups? I dunno.
I'm in your camp also. I Work six days a week forever, no vacas, but nice game room. Usually too tired to play it though. Lol. There are some posters here that migrated from Recreation.Games.Pinball, and man, did they openly attack everyone all the time. Mods and Robin are doing a great job of keeping them from pushing their misery here, but it's an uphill battle sometimes.
Just keep in mind that lots of the subtleties of conversation are lost in text. It's a two way street bro.