Looks like Q24 on the CPU board activates a relay that drives the motor for the tombstone. Q24 leads to connector CN12 pin 8 of the CPU board, brown-violet wire. From there, I would follow the wire to the relay...I would imagine the relay is probably on a little board under the playfield somewhere, but I'm not sure. Check page 33 of the manual for this chart:
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