Quoted from goingincirclez:This dick-swinging us vs. them, include vs. exclude tribalism is distressing to see. The point of an excellent show is that all should be welcome, and there is something for everyone.
The first show I ever attended in 2015 was local, and I had such a great time as an attendee and newbie pin owner that I resolved to try and bring my own the next year. I wanted to contribute to the experience I was so graciously allowed to participate in. I had NO IDEA what I was doing, or was ultimately in for, but the veterans welcomed me with open arms. In 2016 I brought one game; since then I have brought two each time. And I feel silly that I can't easily bring more even though I live close - but I bring what I can.
And I'm sorry, but this talk about "waah my NIB Stern cost too much $$ to bring" is total bull crap. I wonder how many of those people saying that, are the same ones bemoaning the objective LACK of recent Sterns at this show?? Hmm...
I admit my games generally aren't as valuable in raw$$ as the come-lately NIB crowd will fret about. BUT to me they are every bit as precious, and dare I say irreplaceable. From the wrecked BadCats my (no longer little) girls and I completely restored to like-new and repainted with custom pf touches; to the TimeFantasy I repainted and reworked with a hidden blacklight UV mode achievement; to one of the <10 stateside Whirlwind rewrite betas... every time I load one into my van and take off on the drive, I briefly wonder if it could be the last time and why am I taking the risk?
I take the risk because bringing them to share has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. It has brought enduring rewards of recognition (both subtle and not-so-subtle), friendships, the smiles I see on complete strangers' faces, and new and random challenges and opportunities. That BadCats actually got my girls on I on the national news (!?). TimeFantasy UV won an award, became a show sizzle reel highlight AND won personal accolades from Brian Eddy (who coincidentally revealed StrnThgs' hidden UV mode *after* mine was teased, go figure!). The Whirlwind beta obtained invaluable debugging data for the ongoing coding dev effort.
Even something as "lowly" as a mere Firepower to you, was something I brought to just my second effort, to see if my full circuit-board and playfield insert shotgunning workmanship was up to the tasks of surviving it. When it did, I was encouraged to try bigger and better things. (Of course it had its hiccups along the way, but people stepped in to assist. Which I have paid forward by constantly being sought to fix other people's games during shows, haha).
The point is I'm a nobody, and my collection ain't shit. But it's worth a ton to me, yet I do what I can.
And that's nothing compared to homebrewers and re-themers: ask how much blood, sweat, time, and stress they have in their projects and they'll blow your minds even *before* they tally the dollar figure for parts, if they even dared to keep track. And yet they bring them to shows and let them get played - to their possible peril - anyway!
All because I (and I dare speak for the homebrew crowd, they) have been thanked countless times for sharing these games, and forge many friendships and invitations as a result - even for the less-noteworthy games brought along. To me, that is far more valuable than the "invoice price" of a NIB game.
So do what you can!
And if that still means just showing up to pay and play and buy stuff, that's fine too. That was me the first year, and would have been me the next years if, say, I only had a car and not my beloved POS Aerostar barely up to the task of hauling games haha. Or I still had a job that wouldn't allow me to even think of time off to set up. Schedules and logistics mean it's not always feasible to bring stuff. So if you can't bring stuff, thank those who do, no matter WHAT they brought (provided it was working or at least trying).
But for god's sake don't dare come around a show thread to whine about how your games are too much money to bring to a show. Waa waa waa what a bullshit selfish humblebrag, I'm sure if you have a collector car it must stay in the garage forever too (sorry Levi I couldn't resist). If everyone had that same piss-poor "not MY $$$ game!" attitude, there wouldn't be ANYTHING to play except the worn out things you'd also surely complain about. So GTFOH with that. Share what you can, or STFU and thank those who put in any effort at all.
/rant
/goddammit I hate being so effing wordy