Ok - finally got back to this today. I also discovered something in looking at the schematics that I had not thought through...
I have mislabeled this thread from the top - it is not "All Coils Fire" after all...it should be "Playfield Coils Fire".
The knocker and flipper enable and coin door relays all work as they should. It is only relays whose outputs come through J5 on the SDB, and coincidentally, come from U3.
So I am beginning to suspect U3 - as since the other coils work in coil test, that must indicate that U2 is fine.
I checked a few pairs of legs on U3 since the schematic shows the pairs as the terminals for each individual "transistor" inside. Both pins read "high" when tested in Coil test, but one is higher than the other. I see that pins 5 and 15 are ground.
Can someone shed some light as to what I should be looking for on the scope screen when testing the pins on U3?
Thanks and sorry for the confusion!