It seems really strange that the in the 5x7 matrix of strobes/returns, you always have at least a couple of strobes and a couple of returns that work but others that don't. I don't even pretend to understand what happens in the chips and it very well could be a problem in one of those interpreting/transmitting the signals incorrectly.
When you say the switches work or not, are you using a DMM or the open/closed switch test from the Control Board? Testing continuity through a switch and transmitting a signal to the control board can be two different things. Do those two tests yield the same results?
Six problems without any commonality is hard to figure out, which is surely why you posed the question. You seem to know more about the craft of pinball repair than I do, but I would like to help brainstorm a possible fix if I can.
Do the wire codes match up for everything? We tend to assume that everything came out of Bally as it should have and nobody since has tried and failed miserably to hack through a problem on your machine. Plus, there is at least one confirmed error in the EBC manual that I am aware of. It is possible in my mind that you have one strobe that is dead and the wiring diagram for the switches in the manual is not correct. I (think I) can help you compare your machine to mine if you want.