Play both of them. After that you wont need anyone telling you what is the better pin. Like you said your wife wont let you blah blah blah. So take the time out and see for yourself. Like I said there will be a clear winner in your eyes. I notice many people dont like to say bad things about a pin they own bc they dont want to hurt there market when it comes to selling it. On a side note im a HUGE, HUGE Metallica fan and not a huge Star trek fan. I have played both and would buy (drum roll..............) neither (at the moment).