Your arrest and status of your business are 2 different things. Since you run your own business it’s not like you have to worry about your boss firing you. It’s a minor infraction/inconvenience so just get over it. It’s not a big deal….but I would also advise that if you live in an area bad enough you feel the need to pack heat in your own neighborhood perhaps you should consider another part of town. Tons of places you can move to that are much better but that’s on you.
As far as your business there is a saying that you get out of it what you put into it…..in other words if you don’t follow up/monitor employees they WILL rob you blind. Don’t think employees are there because they want to be. It’s hard to find employees with true integrity….keep em on there toes like any day could be their last but be nice about it. Let them know that big brother is ALWAYS watching even if they are not. And if the cost of your product goes up then you need to raise the selling price….or find a cheaper “ Legal” means to obtain the product you are selling.
Rent houses are a crap shoot…if you want to be a slum lord then more power to you. Unless you are buying high end properties to rent I wouldn’t do it. Even if you buy middle class houses to rent there will be issues…think about why people rent. Most rent because they have relocated and need something quick or they can’t qualify for a loan. Many renters live paycheck to paycheck. Unless you like dealing with house repairs all the time or will make enough to pay for the emergency repairs to be done it’s just a bad idea IMO unless you are committed to it. Just make sure you know what you are getting into before you decide to buy rental properties. I am sure there are several folks here that can tell you all about it.
Life is stressful for many of us. Take a step back…breathe….have A drink and try to relax for just a moment. Don’t make a knee jerk reaction. Think things through. Perhaps make a list of what is most important to you or several lists….what you want out of life, what you want out of s job, etc. Then make a plan to get tje things you want/value most. There is more to life than toys/money.
I just started a new job myself and though it is very new I think it will put me in a better place. I literally think I have found a job that is almost stress free….it is technical and there are some challenges but I am not working 60 plus hrs a week with customers/technicians calling me morning, noon, and night 7 days a week. For the last 20 years I have worked very demanding jobs requiring basically on call support 24/7. Though I enjoyed what I did, I worked myself to death…..I have never known the meaning of a true 40 hr work week and when you are off you are actually off. Work always came home with me. I am looking forward to actually enjoying time with my wife, family, and friends. The sacrifice is I am definitely going to make less but it’s enough and I will have a life. It’s time I work so I can live and not live to work.
Life is short and the older you get is when you realize this. Hope you figure out what is the right choice for you to put you in a better place. Don’t let the small stuff drag you down!