I sold a pin on ebay many years ago to some guy in Canada and I agreed to wait a few weeks to give him time to come get it. He paid for it right away and a month turned into several months and I still had it here, no time to come down here and get it even though it was part of a vacation he was going to take supposedly. After 4 months I still had it here still totally paid for and he tells me he didn't have time to get it because he just got back from a vacation in Florida. I'm no whiz at geography but I'm roughly somewhere between Canada and Florida... At that point I just refunded him and ate the fees. What really gets me is he was more disappointed that he couldn't still come to get the game from me since he still wanted it. I was more concerned that I had this guys money and the thing he bought from me that he refused to come to get. That was my last ebay pin sale. Good luck!