I typically replace the female connectors if possible, saving old ones for reuse.
Remove a pin, cut old crimp contact off, strip to length, crimp on new pin, insert pin into new housing.
Following this one for one process, you'll ensure the correct order is maintained.
Once the old housing is completely empy, I'll wash them in vinegar.
For the male sides, remove the board.
Sand the edge connector lightly to remove any corrosion, dirt, whatever.
"Tin" the copper strip by melting solder onto it, and while still molten wipe it off with a paper towel. Make sure you don't build solder mounds. Be careful to not apply too much heat as you can fry the copper from the board.
Good luck.
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