Quoted from msj2222:
Did you read the even read thread before your input?... he..borrowed a truck, filled it with gas, Disassembled the pin, asked a friend to help move the pin, loaded it in the truck , & was about to drive 5 hrs each way to deliver. Why is this a discussion & why did this tool even ask for any $$ back. Sounds like a seller that I would do business with anyday. Keep it, you earned it and more.
Fine to keep any money for expenses incurred. What can I say, it’s good karma to give the rest back and move on, assuming it was just a few days. I’m either being too nice or stupid, probably the latter.
I’ll tell you what I would not have done, drive 5 hours with just a deposit.