Isn't the M relay the 100k relay? Does it come on spontaneously or does it stay on once you score 100k?
If it stays on once you score 100k (and fire the 100k relay) it should let go when the End of Stroke switch on the 100k Step Unit is opened by the advance arm. It's a feedback mechanism to make sure the relay sends power long enough for the stepper to complete its stroke.
/Mark