Quoted from kaneda:I told him to give me until May to work our deal out...he said fine then kept harassing me.
It rains on the just and the unjust alike. Maybe you had a string of really bad crap happen to you, but that doesn't entitle you to deprive your counterparty in a deal what he's owed. You appear to have the means to pay for toys, so if you owe the kid then settle up with him. If you don't, then you can't be surprised if the rest of the community concludes you're a douche.