Quoted from maxwell:
wow...all of this is over my head. I'm just an average internet user, not a computer geek. I'm married and don't use our computer for porn. We do online banking so I wouldn't want to risk getting a virus and information getting out so I don't visit seedy or untrustworthy websites. I made the mistake in typing pinballlife and had this happen. I don't know anything about java/flash/shockwave or any of those plug-ins and whether they should be enabled. I thought they were good but I don't know.
You're either doing marriage completely wrong, or better than anyone else here.