My rule is just to not give her a reason to hate the hobby. I have a lot of hobbies and side interests, and my wife views them all with the "if it makes you happy, it makes me happy" mindset.
As long as I don't start setting machines up in the living room or spending our car payments on pinball, she is cool with whatever.
In return, I try to be cool about her interests. If there is a bag or something she is coveting, it's no different than me drooling over an AC/DC.