I'm not in your position so I can only speak for myself. I have spent quite a bit on pinball over the last 8 years. Sometimes during the holidays you can see others not as fortunate but I've had my ups and downs to. I always rationalize that I could liquidate my collection for at least what I paid for it if I had to I guess, but only to help my immediate family. I donate to good causes and try to help when I can. If you think about it you could always do more but where do you draw the line?