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Quoted from SeaLawyer:....but not before she tried to ruin his career by falsely accusing him of downloading child pornography, stealing people's identities, and physically abusing her. She was eventually charged with filing a false police report, but the state dropped it since it was her first offense.
This RIGHT HERE is one of the major things wrong with the justice system.
Woman: "I purposefully and intentionally tried to kill him, your honor. Been planning it for years with a sound mind just to take everything he owns and earned."
Judge: "Oh, it's ok, dear. We all have bad days and make mistakes."
Man: "Your honor, I accidentally brushed her shoulder while trying to jump in front of an oncoming bus going 80 mph to save a child that wasn't mine."
Judge: "Well boys, looks like we have ourselves a rapist. Case closed"
Quoted from SeaLawyer:Agreed. The family law system, especially, is extremely biased against men. I was PISSED when the state dropped the charges, but I still used it to BURY her in court. Thankfully, they had no kids. She was asking for $4K/month PERMANENT alimony and attorney's fees. She got nothing.
Typical. They know they've got the man, so they go for everything when they're entitled to nothing.
Marriage is one of the biggest traps for "successful" men - those with solid careers, zero debts, pension coming, medical care, etc. Those who enter it and find out they have a bloodthirsty dependapotamus ready to take everything in divorce court is a scary moment.
Not saying marriage is a complete waste of time. The best relationships are founded on solid friendships. Most marriages today are based on knowing someone 1 day to about 3 months and then it's "time to settle down", and they don't even know things like favorite hobbies, interests, pet peeves, etc.
Quoted from tracelifter:LOL!
The day any woman told me I am not allowed would be the day she would go down the road.
Women are like boats, much cheaper to rent.
Most men become submissive as soon as they're married. Instead of being confident and active, they become passive cucks. NOT ALL. Most.
It's "happy spouse, happy house". Those that disagree and say it's "Happy wife, easy/happy life" need to either stand up for themselves and realize THEY are important too, or continue to suffer and wait for the nearly inevitable divorce.
Quoted from SeaLawyer:Hahaha!! You must be military or former military! We use that term all the time!
My 2nd wife I knew for 14 months before we got married. I thought that was enough at our ages (then 36 and 44), but I was wrong. It was a total bait and switch. But for my kids and her forcing me to choose between her and them, I'd have stayed with her a bit longer because she was a TOTAL SMOKESHOW... But no matter how amazing the sex was (top 1%), I wasn't sacrificing my children.
IF I ever get re-married, it will be to someone I've known for YEARS AND YEARS... AND there'll be an ironclad pre-nup.
AD, into my 12th year now : ). We also call them "BX Battlecruisers" or "Tricareatops".
Sex is one of the biggest and only weapons a woman brings to the table. The things men will do for that opportunity for maybe ...just maybe...an opportunity to go to bed with someone.
Something I ask in my head when I first meet a woman: "Other than your looks, what do you bring to the table? How do we have a mutualistic relationship?" and when the vibe is there and we're having a good time and we are into one another, I'll flat out ask it to her face. It lets her know you are saying without being a total jerk: "Yeah, you look good. What else you got? Tell me you have more than that...."
Good on you for standing up for your kids. Most "men" are great at impregnation and HORRIFIC failures at following through with responsibility they caused once a pregnancy occurs.
Quoted from jwilson:I’m separated and it was sort of contentious, but really, this idea of “battle ax ex-wife” is such a tired trope. If she was such a piece of crap why did you marry her in the first place?
Because people put on some really good "masks" at first, and people tend to overlook MAJOR red flags "in the name of love".
That's why.
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