EDIT: This thread is just one big wall of misunderstandings for the most part. I try my best to salvage some of the damage in this response further down the page and the one following: https://pinside.com/pinball/forum/topic/parent-logic-and-pinball-it-makes-no-sense#post-1934584
But yeah, most of what I originally wrote is extremely easy to take out of context, making it seem more like I'm spoiled and unable to handle money, thus it was a mistake to post it. I apologise for that and will learn to be more careful in the future.
Anywhoo, original post follows for anyone still curious:
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Allow me to relate a conversation I just had with Dad a couple hours ago.
For sake of context: I do indeed live with my father right now, but only until my own projects start to get somewhere financially. As it stands, I make less than livable income off of Patreon support for my web show and am in the midst of coding my first game since 2007. I don't have a day-job because I suffer from a sleep disorder which makes adhering to a regular schedule impossible. I also do not own a pinball machine yet, but we have plenty of space for one and it'll be in the basement anyways, where Dad NEVER goes. I've only been living with Dad for a year as I sold my house last year (after owning it for nearly 10) due to my own failures to get my income going again and to help pay off Dad's debts. I only intend to get ONE pinball machine so I can practice and keep my interest alive and am not going to start building a collection until I actually have a livable income again and am once again living in my own place.
Ahem...
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ME: I'll probably be buying a pinball machine in the next couple days.
DAD: How much will it cost?
ME: $1,000
DAD: This is foolish.
ME: ...why?
DAD: Do you even have $1,000?
ME: Yes.
DAD: ...you shouldn't do this.
ME: Why not?
DAD: You're spending $1,000 on a TOY.
ME: Well, it's not like the money's disappearing. If I ever need the money back and keep the machine in good shape I can sell it for virtually the same amount.
DAD: (no answer)
ME: Besides, you have all your artwork you spent thousands on and all it does is sit on the wall and look pretty.
DAD: Well, I've made hundreds of thousands of dollars.
ME: So the fact that I'm making $250 a month now doesn't mean I can get something I can sell again later if I have to?
DAD: It's your money. Do what you want with it. (Dad's goto cop-out "agree to disagree" line.)
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Also, I know I don't have to say this on Pinside, but absolutely ridiculous responses are ENCOURAGED. I plan to show this thread to Dad sooner or later to see if I can get him to relent. (Not bloody likely, but you never know.)
I'll also definitely post if and when I get the machine I plan to get. Not a done deal yet, but pending!
Post edited by Gemini: This really did not come across very well at all... trying to prevent more misunderstandings... x_x;