Shouldn't be that hard with a Hakko. My first guess would be you're not wiggling the lead as you hit the suction on the Hakko. I would also suggest you use a spudger (covered in the article) to break free that last little bit of solder that sticks the lead to the side of the through-hole.
See the following article which covers the Hakko desoldering gun, but the technique is the same.
https://pinside.com/pinball/forum/topic/terrybs-soldering-guide-part-1/page/3#post-2753805
Also make sure your setup has been properly cleaned and is cleaned fairly often while in use. Dirty filters, clogged tips, etc. will drop the suction power dramatically. The manual will provide the proper cleaning techniques and the following post will give you an idea of how often you need to clean the unit (this covers the FR300, but the frequency of cleaning is the same).
https://pinside.com/pinball/forum/topic/terrybs-soldering-guide-part-1#post-2728526
P.S. - The entire article is suggested reading before replacing RAM chips.