I'm a little late to the party, but I always notice with these questions that people tend to have fierce brand loyalty, no matter what side of the coin you're on.
With that said, if the choices are the Acadia or the Pilot, I would choose the Acadia personally. I just think it looks nicer on the outside, and I have had good luck with GM before. However, when I was looking for a new SUV, nothing anybody made really grabbed my attention. Until I saw a Druango R/T. not too big, agressive styling, can seat 6 ADULTS (7 if configured as such) with no problem. I bought a used 2015 and have loved it for the year I have had it so far. It has a V8 so if super fuel economy is your thing, then this will likely nto be for you, but as I said it's spacious, comfortable in all 3 rows, can tow 8000 lbs, and really scoots when you need it to. Just another option. You can get a V6 but that gives you less towing capability.
Oh, and it can haul a pinball machine, and still have room for the driver and 2 passengers.
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Chris