How’d you feel about it if your wife moved your pins around while you were out?
I don’t get grown men afraid to talk to their wives. My wife and I compromise on stuff all the time. I guarantee if you treat your S.O. like their hobbies don’t matter, you’re gonna have a bad time. She might be ok with getting rid of the scrapbook space, or even reorganizing it. But instead of just seeing if she thinks the same, you go and treat her like her stuff doesn’t matter, she’s gonna resent you and you’ll have a hell of a time next time.