I do not like The End of this story one bit. IAMDARRIS - it sounds like you are letting her take away everything. OPEN YOUR EYES.
The packages arriving are bothering her because of the $$.
The wealthy parents cut her off** and it sounds like she is "leaning" on you for $$. (The most diplomatic way to say it). **This is a CRITICAL piece of the picture which came buried in IAMDARRIS's later posting.
Now you are selling your pins to finance her school? You want her to be successful in life? If so shouldn't she learn how to acquire the means to finance this for herself?
I would be very careful here.