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My best friend passed away and I'm absolutely devastated

By dirkdiggler

2 years ago


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    #1 2 years ago

    Yesterday, November 9, 2021 my dog Jimi passed away. Even though we knew the end was near, it's a crushing feeling. I can't stop the pain. It hurts so bad and I miss him so much. I can't stop crying every time I think about him. When I opened the door and he was wasn't there to greet me I collapsed to the floor and sobbed uncontrollably. The fact that I won't be able to talk to him, touch him, hug him anymore is killing me. He was my best friend. He was 14.5 years old and with my wife and me for 13 years and nine days. We rescued him November 1, 2008 from the North Battleford SPCA.

    He was the absolute best dog. A social butterfly. He had lots of friends and loved everyone. When we would visit my mother in law and her 3 cats they were all best friends and would curl up in his fur for a nap. Whenever one of his friends would be out for a walk he would talk them over for a visit. He had a great bark. He was always eager for a car ride or walk. He went everywhere with us and always by our side.

    My wife and I spent the night going thru pictures and trying our best to celebrate him and all the great times we had together. I hope it will get better eventually but it sucks so bad right now. Our house feels so empty without him. I'd love for him to still be here but his body finally failed him and would have been selfish to keep him alive in pain anymore. I know he's in a better place now and he'll never be forgotten.

    Rest peacefully my beautiful friend Jimi. Love you forever bud

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    #2 2 years ago

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    #14 2 years ago

    Thanks for the kind words. I'll post more pics of him as I go thru old galleries. I know the pain will pass eventually. It's just so hard not to see him everywhere. We don't have kids and the longest we ever left him was 2 nights. He had us wrapped up in his paws and he knew it. He was very spoiled and couldn't say no him. He got whatever he wanted.

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    #19 2 years ago
    Quoted from acedanger:

    Look at that beautiful smile
    "Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
    They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
    You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
    Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together."

    Thanks so much for posting that. My wife and I cried together reading it.

    #30 2 years ago

    These are the oldest pics we could find. His first jacket and he loved curling up on his mom on the couch. He had the coolest looking eyes. The color faded a bit over the years.

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    #39 2 years ago

    Thanks Kevin. Been a real tough morning. Nightsearcher was out last week for a visit and Jimi got a nice pet and rub. He met a handful of pinsiders and happily greated all of you

    #51 2 years ago

    Thanks to everyone who has posted. It's really been helpful for us. Sad but helpful. Condolences to everyone who's going thru the same recently.

    #63 2 years ago
    Quoted from Sako-TRG:

    Sorry to hear this man, awful…. feel for ya
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    We are dreading the day.
    Our dog - German Pointer- her name is Flipper …
    13+3/4 aged and still rocking but got doggy anxiety and dementia. Taken a couple of small strokes….
    Still loves her food though…..[quoted image][quoted image][quoted image]

    Have you considered/tried cbd oil? We started Jimi on it April 2020 and did wonders. He wouldn't have made it much longer we believe. Cbd is great for anxiety and a great anti inflammatory.

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    #75 2 years ago

    The house feels so empty and I keep waiting to hear and see my friend pop his head around every corner. This is just gut wrenching. We've found it helpful to keep talking to him and have lots of pictures spread out around the house.

    Yesterday we decided to take a drive into town just to try and distract ourselves. I reached out to nightsearcher to see if he was free and thankfully he was. It was a welcome distraction to sit and talk for a hr about dogs and life in general over a couple drinks and a couple hours of pins (Wow I suck at pinball when I'm not into it) It was the first time since Monday night I went a couple hours without crying. I truly appreciated it and though I considered you a friend before, you my friend are a friend for life Thanks

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    #84 2 years ago

    Saw this today and made me think of my bud. Still miss him immensely but getting better everyday.

    My wife and I truly appreciate everyone who posted here and took the time to read my post and give it a thumbs up. Nothing but respect.

    Pinside is the best!

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    #86 2 years ago

    Awesome pic Dan!

    #91 2 years ago

    We never did the DNA test but always figured Jimi was a border collie/shelty/retriever cross. The white could have been Paranesse. People always thought part husky but definitely not the right coat. He didn't pluck the way a husky would.

    He was a medium/large dog. Always 69 to 71 lbs on his yearly checkup.

    Quoted from ccbiggsoo7:

    op's dog seems to be part pyraneese, was it? something about those dogs, ive owned many dogs over the yrs. but none will compare to him. great companions and smart as a whip. lost mine 3 yrs ago, and still think about him everyday. them being gone never gets easy, with time, just a little easier.

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    #94 2 years ago
    Quoted from sulli10:

    We lost our 15 year old Sarge last week. She is the brown dog in my Avatar. I sobbed for days. We have had many dogs but she was special. Without getting into details, she saved my sons life. I am crying now.

    Sorry for your loss.

    It's been 5 weeks since JimI passed. First couple weeks were extremely rough. We're doing pretty good now. Still tough running into someone who asks "where's Jimi?" but getting better with it. Has been hard to get into the Christmas spirit this year unfortunately.

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    #95 2 years ago

    My pinside secret Santa made a very thoughtful collage that put a tear in both of our eyes.

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    #97 2 years ago
    Quoted from Cash_Riprock:

    I sit hear reading all of these posts and cry and sadness can linger, but yet a human death a few tears or one good cry and done. Amazing the connection and love our pets bring us.

    Man isn't that the truth. When my mom passed I had one good cry with her in the hospital and that's it. Just had a good cry for about the 100th time seeing a few pics of him.

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