Ok, so having grown up in NJ, my wife and I often say that it takes a lot for "our NJ to slip out" here in the midwest, but when it does its a hoot as our friends are sometimes shocked at how "such a polite couple" can really "correct" bad behaviors of complete strangers
Regardless of where you land in "The Garden State," I would recommend spending some time at the Silverball Museum in Absury Park; awesome place.