Believe it or not I have the same game and cleared the same issue with the same hole just last week. If you manually close the odds hole relay (two over from what you circled in the pic) does the eject coil fire? Mine ended up being the odds hole switch. You're right, the relay is a PITA to reach.
-Rob
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