New York, NY
Not surprising cause it's 100 percent men here but man people are being tough on the old lady!
It's her life let her do what she wants. A lot of the "advice" you are getting here sounds like projection to me.
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Quoted from ThatOneDude:We ditched religion. Made our marriage stronger, largely because in the absence of predefined roles and externally driven ideas of "god's will, " we had to instead learn to communicate honestly. Some ugly stuff came out, but in the end, we're much better. YMMV.
In regards to the OP, our memories are often warped with a rose colored lens. We interpret less complicated times with fewer responsibilities as better times, and forget the bad parts of people we don't interact with every day. It leads to things like affairs with old flames. From any perspective, theistic or otherwise, it is best to cut that shit out of you don't want trouble. And if you think your partner is headed down this path, start talking now before it's too late.
OTOH, a decision made emotionally is not particularly vulnerable to reason, so unless everyone is willing to talk, it's likely a losing proposition.
I like this alternative method, just goes to show there’s more than one way to skin a cat.
You can bang your high school crush 30 years later, then find god, and then get back with the wife.
Or, you can lose god, NOT bang your not wife, and stay with the wife.
It’s like a mix and match, there’s different ways to do it, and one way isn’t necessarily better than the other. Like, I’m considering finding god, and THEN cheating on the wife, but still seeing if we can get back together. Conversely, I’m thinking of having the wife cheat on me, and being so distraught that I lose God, and seeing how that works out.
Lots of possibilities here!
Quoted from fosaisu:You’re married? Those pics you posted wearing your rethemed Redskins hat and PJs had a real bachelor vibe!
"Domestic Partner" just doesn't have the same ring to it.
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