Quoted from BMore-Pinball:I am sorry you are suffering this, I know a lot of people that battle with depression and it is a real struggle.
I will leave you with one basic point of advice.
Happiness is a choice and not a right or a default state of being.
You have to constantly make the choice to be happy and seek out happiness - it's a decision you need to wake up every day and make
I know you mean well. Trust me, I did not choose my 5 years of severe depression and suicidal thoughts. I'm on the other side of it thankfully, but advice like yours may be among the worst I could have heard during that time. There's a gulf between "I'm unhappy with my life choices" depression and "every waking moment is torture" depression. Brains are complicated. Awesome if your outlook has helped you, but we're not all built the same. I survived that bout of depression, I certainly didn't conquer it.