Quoted from Gunnut40:
Ha ha! Getting married is total fail! All these people saying I married my best friend are full of it. All it is a give and take. Your best move would to be single. Oh by the way I have been married for 16 years.
My wife IS my best friend and there has never been give and take. That’s how we knew it was right - it’s always been soooo easy. All the people who say “relationships are hard work” are with someone they’re incompatible with. I’ve been in give/take relationships and it’s always an imbalance, always a game, always a struggle, always stressful. My wife & I have never had that...just love & laughs and drama-free chill times. We just had our baby ghoul on Halloween! This is just a big ‘ol house of love (and pinball) ...I wish this for everyone.