My story is a bit horrid:
Married my “wife” after 3 years of dating and after a year of marriage, discovered she’d been having an affair with an older married man for about 2 years.
We divorced and I was devastated.
About 6 months later she contacts me. Shes made a mistake! Wants me back.
After a long process of her getting counseling, apologizing to my family, etc we began dating and about 2 years later, we remarry.
A year later I discovered the affair was back on. Divorce #2.
It was the most trying time in my life and I wish that pain on no man. Ever.
Just know who you’re marrying.