Yeah Whirlwind or Earthshaker. Whirlwind is probably going to fit most of your bill in your first post except no video mode, 4-ball mulitball, no DMD, no true wizard mode, no kickback.
Next would be T2, other than balanced scoring and 4-ball multiball. No real wizard mode on T2 either.
Spider-man fits most; but then it's out of the price range.
Other than those I'm out of ideas.