I have both so I couldn't tell you which one. Both are really great games and have excellent rule sets. Some of the best rules in pinball, albiet different. The theme integration in LOTR is one of the best in pinball. The shot flow and ruleset in DI is one of the best in pinball. Both get played regularly, and likely both will not leave.
IF I had to pick only one. I would probably go with DI as the ruleset is probably a bit easier to digest and the games don't go for so long.