Switching wires back and forth and trial and error is one way to go. Or you can have a look at the schematic try to understand how it should be wired.
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The solder lug on one end of the high power flipper solenoid winding should have a single (black-yellow/83 or orange-black/78) wire on it directly from the flipper button. The lug between the windings should have a single short wire of unknown color (-J- is for jumper) to one side of the EOS switch. The low power winding lug will have some number of red/10 wires tied to it in addition to the other end of the EOS switch.
On the schematic the high power winding is the lower one, which is always active when the flipper button is closed. The low power winding is the other one that can be bypassed if the EOS switch is closed.