It sounds like you have some issue with the lamp matrix wiring, a diode, etc. that is causing a problem. LED OCD can fix issues with timing and/or leaky transistors, but it cannot fix lamp matrix wiring problems.
Is there a pattern to what lights turn on and what lights cause them to? For example, anything in row 1 (11, 21, 31, etc) causes lamp 81 to be on as well.
You can use the "jumper and bulb" method to test your board outputs and narrow the problem to either a board or wiring issue. The Siegecraft lamp matrix tester is a great tool that makes this same test even easier. Neither of these test will pinpoint a problem in the wiring, though. The best way I know of doing that is to make a full summary of what lights you're trying to light and which acutually turn on, then look for patterns.