I own all 3 and like all 3 for very different reasons.
NBA = quick mindless fun
JM = flow shots and super butter smooth returns. Glove is a buzz kill after the novelty wears off but can be a needed breather after a furious set of made shots.
JD = one of the bext flowing wide bodies, great use of all flippers, fun toy, and fun multiballs and modes
I would make the choice purely on Widebody or not.