2 steps forward, 1 step back....sigh
Giving up on using clear, I tried @mrm_4's suggestion and created a waterslide decal on the laser printer. I laid it down with plenty of fluid and it seemed to have gone on well, covering the crack and not looking too bad. I was worried about the juice used to get the decal to lay flat but when it dried it was almost gone and after a naptha wipedown it was completely gone.
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Thanks to mrm_4 again about using light coats of clear over the decal to start, so I spent sunday watching football and racing out during commercials, putting on all my protective gear, putting a light coat of paint on for 15 seconds, then reversing the process. I laid down 3 light coats of clear and let it dry overnight in my heated paint "tent"
It would appear to have worked, the decal area is covered over quite nicely and although it is raised ever so slightly, that is easily sanded down to flat.DSC00220-cropped (resized).jpg
What I started to sand it down, I noticed everything was bumpy, almost like a sandy texture and it covered the table!DSC00222-cropped (resized).jpg
My guess is that my can of spraymax2K finally expired. I had been keeping it in the fridge (much to my wifes dismay) but I guess it was too long.
I sanded the whole table down with 400 grit but I had to be careful as the decals only had 3 light coats over them and if I sanded into them the result would look terrible. So I did the best I could:DSC00225-cropped (resized).jpg
Then I opened my 3rd can of spraymax2k ($150 in clear between the cans of spraymax and the can of 2-part drippable clear) and put on a thick coat. I hope this is it, we will see how it looks tomorrow!