OP- You may be the most level headed aggravated customer I have encountered. I totally respect your approach and words.
I do think the star cracks were very minor. I also have been somewhat shocked at the veteran pinsiders who acted like this was a huge deal. I assumed most people in pinball for a while and who have owned many games would understand this minor type of issue was very common. In some cases I imagine the bashers are just waiting to bash something. Cody Chunn's posts were the way I feel.
I also agree that JJP should of sent you a ramp. How much could it cost...$25? $50? Not that much and it shows good will.